Grand Rapids Christian Counselor

Lisa will begin seeing clients in February 2026 - reach out today to schedule your intake session with her!

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Meet Lisa DeBoer, MA, Pre-licensed Clinician

You don’t have to rush your healing here.

You might have spent a long time surviving, adapting, or doing what was necessary to get through each day. Now something in you knows it’s time for support - not because you’re failing, but because you don’t have to carry this alone anymore. Some things may feel clear, while others feel confusing or tangled. Both are welcome here. You don’t need to protect me from the hard parts, explain your pain perfectly, or convince me that it matters. It already does, and I count it a privilege to hold space for your story - the beautiful parts and the broken parts.

I work with teens and adults who are navigating trauma, relationship challenges, life transitions, grief, anxiety, depression, and the effects of abuse. I provide individual, couples, and family counseling, with particular experience in trauma stemming from domestic abuse and coercive control, sexual abuse, and religious or church hurt.

I am a Christian, and I believe the Holy Spirit has given you the power and capacity to move toward what is good, right, and true. At the same time, I recognize that many people have been harmed by a church, particular teachings of a church, or spiritual authority. We will gently and respectfully navigate faith, trauma, and church hurt at your pace, and I will never pressure forgiveness or impose beliefs. Healing does not need to be hurried.

My approach is grounded in the belief that counseling is most effective when it is rooted in safety, trust, empathy, and a genuine therapeutic relationship. My therapeutic orientation is primarily cognitive-behavioral, with elements of narrative therapy, emotion-focused therapy, trauma-focused CBT, and trauma-informed somatic interventions. I was trauma-informed long before I became a counselor. Before entering this field, I worked as a health coach, life coach, and for over 15 years as a domestic abuse victims’ advocate. Those experiences deeply shape how I show up in the therapy room. I will name abuse when it is present, I will not minimize harm or sugarcoat what you’ve been through, and I will walk alongside you, advocating for you, empowering you to make your own decisions with confidence, and supporting you as you strengthen your sense of agency. It takes courage to be vulnerable, to tell your story, and to pursue healing. You don’t need to be “fixed”, but there is always room for hope, growth, and restoration - and I would be honored to walk alongside you as you navigate those paths.

I have been married for 26 years and am the proud mom to five amazing teens and young adults, as well as two sons-in-law. Outside the therapy room, I love sunshine, the beach, walking with friends, camping and boating with my family, and watching college football.


What is it like to work with me as your therapist?

I am a deeply attentive and compassionate listener. You don’t need to organize your thoughts or find the “right” words for them to matter. Part of my role is helping you slow things down and make sense of what you’re carrying, without pressure or judgment. I believe the relationship between therapist and client is important to healing, and this is one relationship in which you are allowed to take up space. I will show up as genuine, steady, and present, and you can expect honesty, care, and respect. I will laugh with you, cry with you, and celebrate with you. I will sit with you in the hard places, gently but directly challenge you when needed, and always honor your boundaries and autonomy. You won’t need to protect me from your pain or convince me of your experience. I believe you, and your story is safe with me.

What will our work together look like?

Our work will move at the pace of your nervous system. I believe in solution-focused counseling without rushing. Healing does not need to be forced to be effective. Sometimes our work will focus on insight and understanding; other times it will be about grounding, support, or taking thoughtful steps forward. Safety, stability, and trust are the foundation of everything we do. Together, we will work to:

  • Understand patterns, beliefs, and experiences shaping your current challenges

  • Build practical tools for emotional regulation, clarity, and resilience

  • Gently process trauma without overwhelming or retraumatizing you

  • Strengthen your voice, sense of agency, and ability to make empowered choices

  • Make room for faith, doubt, grief, anger, joy, and questions - without pressure or agenda

  • Make sense of your story, and also accept that some parts of it might not make sense.

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