christian counseling grand rapids michigan

Marriage Problems, Betrayal Trauma, Affairs, Infidelity, Porn

Marriage Counseling

Being married can be hard - creating a life out of two individuals who each have their own stories can be complex and confusing. Add to that the harm that we can do to each other and sometimes we need a safe, non-judgmental, non-biased space to process and heal.

We have training and experience to help.

Betrayal Trauma

The wound of relational betrayal requires a gentle, understanding guide AND a fierce advocate. The pain and disorientation you are feeling is debilitating and a way forward can feel impossible. From discovery to disclosure to healing - we will walk the road that honors you, your story, and your desires together. You aren’t alone.

Whether it's the discovery or disclosure of porn, emotional affairs, sexual addiction, or physical infidelity the magnitude of the impact is immeasurable. The betrayed can feel rage, grief, despair, loneliness, hopelessness, anxiety, and has so many questions. The betrayer can feel crushing shame, embarrassment, humiliation, sorrow, and fear. You both have choices.

Our responsibility to you in this journey is to help navigate the journey first to TRUTH and then to a plan for reconciliation or separation. We will facilitate a full disclosure, led by the desires of the betrayed partner. If desired, we partner with a local practitioner for the administration of a polygraph test. Once the truth is revealed, the process of rebuilding begins and we will walk with you, equipping you for the rebuilding of trust or the rebuilding of your life.